We all were in love at least for one time in life. Some of us are in love at the very moment. When we are in love, we usually forget the physical imperfections of the other person. Poets, artists and famous people say different things about love,

“No matter what has happened. No matter what you’ve done. No matter what you will do. I will always love you. I swear it.”
––Defiance by C.J. Redwine


“I knew the second I met you that there was something about you I needed. Turns out it wasn’t something about you at all. It was just you.” 
––Beautiful Disaster by Jamie McGuire
However most people look and consider at physical perfections, external beauty, money in the family and attire in order to love somebody. Such "Practical Love" is common and seen in society as an accepted practice.

In most debates in colleges, there was always the question, which is good? Arranged marriage or Love Marriage?. In India, arranged marriages are common and families prefer it too. There is a belief that arranged marriages stay longer than love marriage. Love marriages are considered as a taboo in India especially by conservative religious people. May be we can say love first and then look for marrying her/him with consonance from both families.

Anyways, recently i saw a post in Facebook which showed a wedding photo in Kerala, India. That post made me think about the concept of love. We have seen so many incidents like this and we forgot them and move on in life with our own issues and problems in love and life. I just want to share this with you.

News about a wedding
The news is about Jaya Prakash who married to a girl named Sunitha in Guruvayoor Temple. Sunitha was a problem manager in IBM. In 2011, August Sunitha had an accident while she was travelling in car from Bangaluru to Coimbatore. The accident happened in Dharmapuri. Her car accidentally touched the divider in the road and gone upside down. After her accident, she was taken to Manipal hospital in Banglur and doctors said that she only have a short chance to live.  However she lived but her face lost its shape. Doctors conducted plastic surgery and her facial structure improved up to 70 percentage. Jayaprakash made a great decision then that made everybody happy. He was ready to marry her even after the incident and he married her.

Wedding photo
Wedding photo

A hearty congrats to the couple and GOD bless them. 

I think this lesson of love should be shared and embraced.

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